Where to start
Choosing a care home is one of the biggest decisions a family can make, and it often has to happen quickly. This guide explains the main types of care, how care can be paid for, and what to look for when you visit, so you can make the right choice with confidence.
Types of care
- Residential care: for people who can no longer manage safely at home and need help with everyday things such as washing, dressing, meals and medication.
- Dementia care: residential care from staff trained to support people living with dementia, with calm routines and familiar surroundings.
- Respite care: a short stay that gives family carers a break, or a chance to try a care home before deciding.
- Convalescent care: a short stay to recover after a hospital stay, operation or illness before returning home.
- End of life care: gentle, compassionate care in a peaceful setting, with support for the whole family.
Paying for care
- Self funding: many people pay for their own care, often using savings or the value of their home.
- Local council funding: your council can carry out a care needs assessment and a financial assessment. If savings and assets are below a set level, the council may pay some or all of the cost. Families can sometimes choose a home that costs more by paying a top up.
- NHS Continuing Healthcare: if someone's needs are mainly health related, the NHS may pay the full cost of their care.
The rules can be complicated, so it is worth speaking to your local council, or an independent adviser such as Age UK, early on. We are always happy to talk you through the options.
Visiting care homes
Try to visit two or three homes, and if you can, take the person who will be living there. Notice how staff speak to residents, whether people seem settled and happy, and whether the home feels clean, bright and welcoming. At Hampton Manor you are welcome to call in, though we ask that you avoid mealtimes where possible.
Questions to ask
- What does the weekly fee include, and are there any extra charges?
- What is the latest CQC rating, and what did the report say?
- How will care be planned, and how often is it reviewed?
- Can residents bring their own furniture and belongings?
- What activities happen each week, and can families join in?
- How are families kept updated?
Our brochure includes a full checklist to take with you on any visit. Download it from the Hampton Manor page, or send us an enquiry and we will happily post one to you.
Last updated: September 2026